how to safely train your body for bigger sex toys
There’s no denying that bigger sex toys can be fun and exciting – but it’s important to be aware of safety first. Training your body to safely accommodate these larger items can be a challenge, but it’s not impossible. Here’s what I’ve learned about how to best train your body.
Firstly, it’s essential to start with a good warmup to get your body ready. Not only will this help to loosen up the muscles, but it will also help to promote blood flow and get the area ready to explore! Some simple stretching can go a long way for getting your body ready.
Secondly, don’t rush the process – be mindful of how you feel. A good rule of thumb is to stop if any sort of discomfort or pain is experienced. Ultimately, the goal is pleasure, so don’t compromise that with any kind of injury. Go slow and steady with the process.
Thirdly, it is important to follow the manufacturer’s instructions for each toy. Each one may have specific directions or sizes that your body needs to accommodate. Make sure you’re familiar with the product and its instructions before using it.
Fourthly, make sure to use plenty of lube. Lube can help to ease the insertion process and reduce friction while using larger toys. You may even need to try out a few different kinds before settling on one – it’s all about personal preference.
Fifthly, focus on relaxation techniques such as deep breathing or taking a hot bath beforehand. This can help to relax the muscles and make insertion easier. Additionally, try to find a comfortable position or angle that works for you and your body – this can make all the difference.
Finally, trust yourself and your body. You know your own limits and you know how to take care of yourself. With patience and practice, you’ll be able to find a size and style of toy that works for you and your body. Just remember to take it slow and be gentle with yourself.
Now that you’ve got the basics of training your body for larger sex toys, let’s explore some methods to insert larger toys safely.
Firstly, warm up for a few minutes by slowly massaging the area with your fingers or a small object before you move on to the larger toy. This helps to get your body used to the sensation.
Secondly, start with a smaller toy and work your way up gradually. Make sure you pause throughout the process and stay mindful of any discomfort or pain. After each session, take some time to rest and relax.
Thirdly, use plenty of lube and topical or oral numbing agents for added comfort and relaxation. Make sure you use a water-based lube and toy-safe lubricants. You may also want to try using condoms, especially if you’re sharing the toy.
Fourthly, try incorporating some toys that are specifically designed to help stretch you out. These can range from butt plugs to anal Training Kits. It’s a good idea to look for toys that are hypoallergenic, body-safe and specifically designed for anal play.
Fifthly, use a finger or toy slowly and steadily in order to stretch out the muscles. Focus on relaxing and taking deep breaths throughout the process. This will help prevent discomfort and lessen the risk of pain or injury.
Finally, take your time and find the right size. Remember that everyone is different and what works for one person may not work for another. You can always experiment with different sizes and materials to find something that works for you.
Now, let’s talk about exploring larger sex toys with a partner.
Firstly, communication is key when it comes to anal play with a partner. Make sure you both know the boundaries, what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not.
Secondly, use plenty of lube and start slow. Remember that you can always add more lube if needed but it’s much harder to remove excess.
Thirdly, make sure to use small toys for warm-ups. This can help each one of you assess the comfort levels before moving on to larger toys.
Fourthly, use verbal and physical cues to show your partner what works best. Share how the toys feel or let your partner know with signals.
Fifthly, stay present and attentive with your partner. Make sure to check in with them throughout the experience and make sure they’re comfortable and enjoying the process.
Finally, be creative and have fun. Experiment with different sizes, shapes and materials. Just don’t forget to practice safe sex and take it slow.
Now let’s talk about integrating anal beads or chains into your routine.
Firstly, anal beads and chains come in many different shapes, sizes and material. Pick a size that’s comfortable for you – something that’s not too big or too small.
Secondly, the smaller the beads, the easier and smoother the insertion will be. Make sure to lubricate the entire length of the beads before insertion.
Thirdly, insert the beads slowly and one at a time. Start with the smallest bead and work your way up. Make sure to go slow and pause if you experience any discomfort.
Fourthly, exercise caution when taking the beads out. Remember to take your time and go slow in order to prevent any damage or tears in the lining of the anal canal.
Fifthly, once you’re done, take some time to relax and enjoy the sensation. You can always add more lubricant throughout the process if needed.
Finally, don’t forget to sanitize the beads after each use. Make sure to use a toy-safe cleaner and rinse the beads with warm water before storing them away.
Now let’s discuss using larger dildos/vibrators safely.
Firstly, choose the one that fits your size and comfort level. Smaller dildos/vibrators are generally best suited for anal play, so make sure to avoid those labeled as “massive” or “XXL”.
Secondly, use plenty of lube and opt for a water-based one. This will help to reduce friction and make insertion smoother.
Thirdly, it’s best to start small and work your way up in size and intensity. If you experience any discomfort or pain, pause the process and try something else; you may need to adjust the angle or size.
Fourthly, use a harness or position pillows to provide support or to help with the angle. This can help to ease the insertion process and make it more comfortable.
Fifthly, be mindful of the speed and intensity when using vibrators. It’s always best to start slow and increase the speed gradually until you find the setting that works best for you.
Finally, take your time and make sure you’re relaxed and comfortable. Pay attention to the sensations and if necessary, take a break before continuing.
Now let’s focus on rinsing/cleaning sex toys after every use.
Firstly, let’s discuss cleaning non-porous, silicone toys. After use, clean the toy with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Make sure to rinse it off thoroughly and let it dry completely before storing it away.
Secondly, for porous toys, it’s important to use a stronger cleaner. After rinsing with warm water and mild soap, these types of toys should be soaked in a 10% bleach solution for 10 minutes before being dried and stored away.
Thirdly, make sure to never use abrasive cleaners, detergents, or harsh soaps on any kind of sex toy. These can cause damage and ruin the quality of the toy.
Fourthly, it’s important to use condoms if you plan on sharing your sex toys with a partner. This helps to decrease the risk of spreading any kind of infection or bacteria.
Fifthly, make sure to store sex toys away from direct sunlight and away from children or pets. Place it in a cool, dry area away from any kind of moisture.
Finally, keep your sex toys out of reach from people who could potentially take them without your permission. If you’re traveling with your sex toys, make sure they’re in a discreet location in order to protect your privacy.