So you’re in the market for a dildo, eh? Well, you’ve come to the right place, vibrators my friend! I know firsthand just how liberating and enjoyable using a dildo can be, but it can also be a bit intimidating if you don’t know what you’re doing. I’d love to share with you the tricks and tips I’ve learned along the way…
When you’re first starting out, remember to go at your own pace. Exploring yourself and your own pleasure doesn’t have to be a race. The more comfortable and confident you are, the better it’ll feel. To ensure your own comfort and safety, make sure you get a body-safe dildo that’s made of silicone or glass, and don’t forget some water-based lubricant for extra comfort and moisture.
Once you’ve got the basics all set, it’s time to get to playing. Start by gently exploring your body with the dildo – your labia, clitoris, or anywhere else you’re feeling curious about. Experiment with the sensation of the dildo and let yourself relax into very light and pleasurable stimulation. And don’t be afraid to add more lubricant if you need it!
Once you’ve got the hang of exploring, it’s time to get down to the actual dildoing. Depending on the size and shape of your dildo, you can do this in a few different ways. For clitoral and G-spot stimulation, you can grind or press the dildo against the area in a circular motion, or even just leave it in place and allow your inner contractions to do the work. You can also insert the dildo and experiment with pumping actions.
On top of that, you can also take your pleasure to the next level with vibration. If you have a vibrating dildo, you can use the motor for added pleasure to all areas of your body – clitoris, labia, G-spot, nipples, or wherever else you’d like. Make sure to keep the intensity low to start and adjust according to your preferences.
Maybe you’re ready to take the plunge and explore anal pleasure? No fear! Before playing around with your dildo, be sure to get yourself aroused (or your partner, if that’s your thing) and use lots of lubricant. Insert gently with plenty of communication from both of you. Start with small positions and work your way up, slowly increasing the width and length.
If you have a strapless strap on, you can also use your dildo to explore pegging, which is a fun way of switching up the traditional power dynamic. The night stands to reason that whoever’s being pegged gets to decide how long and hard the dildo gets thrust with. And make sure there’s plenty of lubricant involved!
Dildos are a great way to explore and connect with yourself and your partner. And now that you know the basics, just remember – use protection, lots of lube, go slowly, and enjoy yourself! Who knows, you might just find your new favorite way to get off.