I was feeling adventurous the other day and I wanted to try something new in bed. Worried about not being able to do it correctly, I asked one of my friends how to insert a dildo. She said not to worry and that it was really easy.
Well, after that, I decided to look into it myself and I’m so glad I did! Inserting a dildo is way easier than I thought and I can share a few of the tips I’ve picked up.
First off, make sure you have yourself and your bed all prepped up. Lube up the dildo! Any kind of water based lube will do. Funny enough, I just realized I got some of the same lube my friend recommended.
Then all ya gotta do is just lay down and take it slow. Start with the tip and only insert it as far as you’re comfortable with. That way, you don’t hurt yourself and you can gradually ease your way through it. Keep at it and soon, you’ll be comfortable enough to move around, Penis Rings change angles, and even add in a few accessories!
One thing that really helped me was using music as a form of distraction. It brings my focus away from the anticipation and helps me relax my body. I like to try different combinations of music for each session, just to switch it up a bit. Plus, it’s so much fun choreographing new moves while the music is playing!
The last thing I recommend is that you take it one step at a time. I believed I had myself overstretched and trying to do it all at once. It’s okay to take the time you need to get comfortable and find the right position. There’s no rush and there’s no exact rule of how to do it either.
Now that you know how to insert a dildo, it’s time to get creative with it. Try different angles, positions and use different motions. Explore your toy and all the possibilities – there are so many!
You could start small by increasing the angle of insertion and then you could move onto experimenting with speeds. Do what you’re comfortable with and trust me, the pleasure will be hard to contain! When you find an angle or motion that makes you wild, vibrators stick with it and enjoy the ride.
Taking it a step further, you could even enhance the whole experience by introducing some bondage, clothes pins and even some temperature play. Or, if you’re feeling daring, you could even bring a partner along for the ride. The possibilities are endless and it’s up to you to find what works best for you.
Isn’t it amazing how much pleasure you can get out of a dildo? I’m super glad that I decided to look into it and learn how to do it properly. It wasn’t as nerve-wracking as it seemed and is so much easier if you pace yourself. Who knows, this could even be the start of something new and exciting!